88. Stop Overcomplicating Health After 40: Here’s What Women in Perimenopause Need First
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Tired, bloated, moody, or not like yourself? Before you assume it’s mold, Lyme, or some complicated “root cause”, it might be time to get back to the basics.
In this episode, Claudia shares what women in perimenopause truly need to focus on first to start feeling better. She breaks down why functional medicine sometimes leads to fear and confusion, and how to simplify your approach, so your body can finally heal and thrive in your 40s and beyond.
What You’ll Learn:
- The truth about why women over 40 overcomplicate their health (and what to do instead)
- The key foundations your body needs before diving into expensive testing or complicated protocols
- Why your body can’t heal if it doesn’t feel safe, nourished, or rested
- The role of discipline, consistency, and nervous system regulation in real healing
- When it’s actually time to explore deeper root causes like gut issues or chronic infections
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The Overwhelm of Online Health Advice
If you scroll social media for even a few minutes, not only will you be overwhelmed by all the conflicting health advice, but you’ll probably think you have parasites, mold, Lyme or some other “root cause” and need to do extensive protocols.
But before you go there… let’s take a breath.
Because what most women over 40 actually need is a return to the basic foundations of health.
This episode is all about what to focus on first in perimenopause before assuming you have some deep, mysterious issue.
Why Women Start Searching for “Root Causes”
Here’s what I see over and over: women are desperate for answers, and I get it. You’ve been dismissed by doctors, told “everything looks fine,” and you still feel awful. So naturally, you start looking deeper.
You Google symptoms. You join Facebook groups. You start hearing about mold, parasites, Lyme, MCAS, histamine intolerance, and on and on.
And listen: I love functional medicine. It’s how I improved my own health and how we help clients. But there’s also a side of this space that creates fear and overwhelm. It can make you believe your body is broken when really, it’s just under-supported.
Before you start ordering $5,000 worth of tests or doing some parasite cleanse, we need to talk about what actually moves the needle.
The Basics Most Women Skip (But Actually Need)
These are the things that will make or break your progress — and most women skip them because they sound too simple.
1. Hydration + Minerals
You’re not tired because you need another adrenal supplement. You’re tired because you’re dehydrated and your cells can’t communicate properly. Add sea salt, electrolytes, or trace minerals.
2. Sunlight + Circadian Rhythm
It’s so important to get natural light in your eyes, preferably within 30 min or so of waking. Go outside again in the afternoon and dim the lights at night. Your hormones follow natural light cues.
3. Movement
Move every day. Walk, lift weights, stretch, dance. Movement isn’t just about calories; it regulates your blood sugar, stress hormones, digestion, and mood.
4. Elimination
You need to poop every day. Sweat as often as you can. That’s detoxification 101. If you’re not eliminating well, your body can’t clear out waste or hormones.
5. Sleep & Rest
Scrolling your phone until midnight, running on caffeine causing poor sleep and fatigue isn’t perimenopause; it’s burnout. Sleep is when your body heals, repairs, and supports hormones. Protect it like it matters cuz it really does.
6. Nervous System
You will have a hard time feeling good if you are stuck in fight-or-flight. Your body has to feel safe before it can repair: calm, supported, nourished.
Your Nervous System: The Foundation of Healing
If you’ve been running on stress, saying yes to everyone, or constantly over-functioning, your nervous system has learned that chaos is normal.
In that state, your body’s focus is survival, not healing. Digestion slows. Hormones go awry. Good sleep is hard to come by. Inflammation climbs.
So before you start another protocol, start with:
- Slowing down. Say no more often – whether it’s people requesting your time, an invitation to an event you don’t have capacity for, or your kids. It’s OK and vital to have boundaries even with them. Having them involved in a million activities where you’re running around like a chicken without a head is not helping you or them. Be more discerning about what you commit to. Because if you’re not, you will drown.
- Rest intentionally. True downtime; not multitasking in disguise. This morning, I sat downstairs on my comfy chair in the living room, sipping a matcha without my phone. No TV, no laptop. SILENCE. It’s so healing. It can be uncomfortable at first b/c we’re all addicted to busy-ness. And constant distractions, so we don’t have to sit with our thoughts. I know this can be hard if you have little ones running around, so find little pickets throughout your day, even if it’s 5 minutes to breathe v.s scroll your phone. I assure you – it will benefit you.
- Nourish yourself with good food. Eat enough food, especially protein, especially fiber fruit and vegetables – a variety of colors. Under-eating or constantly eating fast food tells your body it’s unsafe.
- Address stress or trauma. That doesn’t always mean therapy; sometimes it’s journaling, doing something creative, making time for fun or connecting with supportive people.
- Keep promises to yourself. The more consistent you are, the more your body learns to trust again. If you start a program, SHOW UP for it.
- Safety is the foundation. When your body finally feels supported, healing becomes possible.
Consistency vs. “Feeling Broken”
A lot of women think something’s wrong with their body when, truthfully, they’ve never been consistent long enough to know.
They start something on Monday, stop by Thursday, and by the weekend they’re drinking wine, skipping meals, and wondering why they’re still bloated and exhausted.
That’s not a broken metabolism; that’s a lack of consistency and discipline.
And I’m not saying this to shame anyone. It’s just reality. And as a coach, I can assure you I’ve heard every excuse.
We can’t expect results from habits we don’t follow through on. If we allow the stress of life to constantly throw us off track, you need to start asking yourself why do you have so much stress or how is your reaction to that stress the problem?
The women who get the best results when working with us?
They’re not perfect. They’re consistent.
They drink their water, eat their protein, walk, sleep, and show up even when life is busy. And they don’t have a victim mentality – they don’t blame work, their kids, their husband or the program. They’re responsible for their own health.
The Truth About Victim Mindset
This part might sting a little, but it’s important.
You can’t heal when you have a victim mindset.
You can’t outsource your health to a doctor, coach, or supplement.
At some point, you have to take ownership – and that’s the most empowering thing you can do.
Because healing isn’t a quick fix. It’s a series of small, daily decisions that add up over time.
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Your health is the foundation for everything: your relationships, your work, your happiness.
When It Is Time for Testing
Once you’ve built the foundation and you’ve been consistent for at least three to six months, then it might be time to dig deeper.
At that point, testing for things like gut infections makes sense.
But even then, the goal isn’t to find what’s “wrong” with you; it’s to give your body the support it needs to function optimally.
And by that time, you’ll be in such a stronger position to handle it.
The Real Question to Ask Yourself
So ask yourself: am I truly doing the basics or just thinking about doing them?
Because most women are just distracted. And when you strip it all back, health after 40 really can be simple: Sunlight. Filtered water. Real food. Movement. Rest. Connection. And when the time is right, hormone replenishment, because we have to acknowledge basic physiologic needs as we age.
The boring stuff actually works.
How to Get Support Inside The Perimenopause Method
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and actually put these foundations into practice with guidance and accountability, that’s what we do inside The Perimenopause Method.
It’s my 4-month program for women over 40 who want to support hormones, improve metabolism, and feel good in their body again – without overcomplicating it.
We do utilize mineral testing + good old fashioned blood work to give us data and so we know what you as an individual really need to focus on. But we will continue to come back to the basic foundations of health.
Claudia Petrilli is a Functional Health Coach, Integrative Nutrition Coach, Women’s Health Educator, and creator of The Perimenopause Method program. Having experienced debilitating periods, digestive issues, a sluggish thyroid, a pituitary tumor, and perimenopause symptoms in her late 30s, she knows exactly what it’s like to get dismissed by doctors and spend years searching for answers.
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